Friday, October 5, 2012

Tips for psychological comfort



Start from the first thing

Be sure of yourself and your ability to treatment the things

Treat your affairs and your problems

Sit to yourself every day, even if a short time

Cemented your faith that there is no impossible in life

Do not put obstacles in your thinking

Do not imitate anyone in  pessimistic Things  

Changed the course of your thinking and the course of your life will be changed

 Manage your time and your business. because the Chaos creates bile, anxiety and hatred

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Crying of child in the first day of school

Crying child in the first day of school

Is this is the first time your child goes to school?Feel concerned that he had cried on the first day of school, I do not know how to deal with this situation? Here are some tips that will help you learn how to deal with your child in this case:

The concern of the child away from his mother in the first day of school is a very natural thing in the pre-school, especially if this is the first time for him to go to school. It is very natural for children to cry and cling to their parents during the first few days of school.

It is important to make your child understand that you can not to be with him always in all the time, and this is what you can do to reduction stress and anxiety for both you and your child, too.

- initialize your child in even to be able to stay away from you


You should talk with your child before he went to school and tell him that you know he will act as a big person when he be at the school and you in your business.   

- You should also tell your child what you're doing when he in school

Some children know that school is a good place they don't know why their parents let they at the school , and to avoid that feeling in children should explain to him your activities while in school, for example, you can tell him that when you are at home i am doing household chores i go to my work or something like that.


- Should also tell him what he can when he at the school during your absence

Must explain to him in detail about the recreational activities, which he will be conducted by the teachers in the school, and how he will deal with other children to make friends, and how they will learn reading, writing and drawing like you and like his father.

- assure to your child you will be come to him

Always must tell him you will come to took him to house and must prove him until assured and have a confidence in what you say.

 - Prepping in case your child crying

Despite all these settings, some children continue to cry should not fuss because that should not be dealing harshly or punish him because his crying, but try to get feel safe and ask him to go to his school .

- Praise and strengthen your child before leaving

You must make him feel confident and pride bacuse he go to hes school through to tell him to him "I very proud you because you are Assiduous